A Insider’s Guide to Wedding Planning in the Hamptons
The Hamptons area is known for its breathtaking beaches, beautiful estates, and a luxurious “small town” vibe. It’s no wonder why this place is a wedding destination by so many. This location offers so much beauty and top notch service. Just because you may not have a residence to host a wedding doesn’t mean you have to miss out on a stunning wedding in the Hamptons. There are still plenty of places where you can celebrate your wedding! As a Hamptons wedding planner I’ve compiled my list of the 12 most incredible wedding venues in the Hamptons area to help you find the best of the best!
If you are interested in more information on hosting a wedding in the Hamptons check out my exclusive guide to a Hamptons wedding here or feel free to set up a one hour consultation call with me here!
Incredible Hamptons Wedding Venues at a Glance
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Bridgehampton Tennis & Surf Club
Gurney’s Montauk
Sole East Montauk
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Wölffer Estate
Bedell Cellars
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The Reform Club
Gurney’s Montauk
East Hampton Resort + Marina
Sole East Montauk
Topping Rose House
The Maidstone
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Parrish Art Museum
East Hampton Resort + Marina
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The Reform Club
The Maidstone
Calissa
Incredible Hamptons Wedding Venues
(In No Particular Order):
PARRISH ART MUSEUM
Photo by Parrish Art Museum
279 Montauk Highway Water Mill, NY 11976
Inspired by the natural setting and artistic life of Long Island’s East End, the Parrish Museum is sited on 14 acres in the hamlet of Water Mill. The building is inspired by the light, water, and sky of the surrounding area. The variety of event spaces, ceiling height and archetype of the building provide a stunning and unique setting for a Hamptons wedding.
My favorite things:
The Parrish Terrace with 1,000 square foot of outdoor space with walls of glass that provide a full view through the lobby gallery out to the southern meadow
The central location on the East End
The natural light throughout the museum makes for stunning photography
THE MUSES
Photography by The Muses
111 St Andrews Rd, Southampton, NY 11968
This venue is a private event space in Southampton bursting with natural light and has classic architecture and design elements, suitable for any wedding in any season.
My favorite things:
The versatility and ease of flow between event spaces. Either choose all outdoors (with multiple outdoor lawns to choose from), both indoor and outdoor or all indoor
The floor to ceiling windows and high ceilings in The Hall
Plenty of onsite parking for guests
THE REFORM CLUB
Photography by The Reform Club
23 Windmill Ln, Amagansett, NY 11930
The Reform Club is an inn located in the town of East Hampton. It is central to all the towns in the Hamptons, and walking distance to the shops on Main Street or a bicycle ride to the beach.
My favorite things:
Onsite accommodations for the wedding party
The Park is a dream-like setting for a wedding ceremony surrounded by private walls of roses, colorful hydrangeas and several silver maple trees
The Sunken Garden with walls of fresh lavender, hydrangeas and intricate brickwork
Photography by Lauren Larsen Studio
BEDELL CELLARS
Photography by Sarah Cebulski Photography
Photography by Connection Photography
36225 Main Rd, Cutchogue, NY 11935
Bedell Cellars is perfectly tucked away in the picturesque hamlet of Cutchogue - technically in the North Fork, but this venue is too close and too amazing not to add to this list.
My favorite things:
The beautiful ceremony location under an old tree
the open expanse of the mahogany pavilion with sweeping views of the vineyards and lush gardens
Amazing wines!
BRIDGEHAMPTON TENNIS & SURF CLUB
Photography by Pat Furey
231 Mid Ocean Drive Bridgehampton, New York 11932
A private tennis and beach club, the Bridgehampton Tennis & Surf Club is surrounded by Mecox Bay, Sam's Creek and the Atlantic Ocean creating a beautiful and private setting.
My favorite things:
Private beach access
The white walls inside create a perfect canvas to bring in any style that you want
Ocean views from the deck and indoors
Great catering by Robbins Wolfe
Click here to see more photos from a Bridgehampton Tennis and Surf Club wedding!
GURNEY’S MONTAUK
Photography by Gurney’s Montauk
290 Old Montauk Hwy, Montauk, NY 11954
Gurney’s Montauk is a perfect location to host out of state or international guests. It’s a quintessential Hamptons retreat with all 158 rooms, suites or cottages equipped with ocean views. Not to mention the hotel has beach access, beachfront restaurants and bars, a full-service spa, and a heated indoor saltwater pool.
My favorite things:
Onsite accommodations for all guests
The Beach club is an on-the-beach, beside-the-ocean dining experience
The variety of event spaces both indoor and outdoor
Photography by Gurney’s Montauk
WÖLFFER ESTATE
139 Sagg Road, Sagaponack, NY 11962
Since 1988 Wölffer Estate Vineyard features the natural beauty of 55 acres of meticulous vineyards, a beautiful Italian inspired tasting room, patio and gazebo. The vineyard is the ideal location for a natural, understatedly elegant summer wedding.
My favorite things:
The custom wine options and pairings
The patio covered by a wooden pergola overlooking the vineyards
Cocktail hour in the vineyard between the rows of grapevines
EAST HAMPTON RESORT + MARINA
Photography by East Hampton Resort + Marina
295 Three Mile Harbor Hog Creek Rd, East Hampton, NY 11937
EHP Resort & Marina is a nine-acre waterfront resort and marina, inspired by the Mediterranean. The resort boasts picturesque indoor & outdoor venues all overlooking Three Mile Harbor.
My favorite things:
Onsite accommodations for all guests including private cottages and homes - perfect getting ready spaces for the wedding party!
Waterfront views
Onsite marina and private charters if you want to have an on-the-water excursion or wedding photos
SOLÉ EAST MONTAUK
Photography by Sole East Montauk
90 Second House Road, Montauk, NY 11954
Solé East is located within walking distance from the beach and is about a mile from Montauk Village’s downtown area. It is situated on a beautiful plot of land on the nothwest perimeter of Fort Pond. The hotel is housed in a historical landmark 2-story building of classic American Tudor architecture developed by the legendary Carl G. Fisher in 1929.
My favorite things:
Onsite accommodations
Separate getting ready rooms
A variety of event and guest activities including, yard games, firepits and swimming pool
TOPPING ROSE HOUSE
Photography by Topping Rose House
1 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton, NY 11932
Topping Rose House is a reimagined 19th century mansion and estate with traditional architecture and contemporary design. With twenty-two guest rooms and four unique event spaces this venue is the perfect Hampton oasis.
My favorite things:
The seasonal menus with locally-sourced ingredients
Onsite accommodations
The Roofdeck with beautiful panoramic views of the property and surrounding Bridgehampton
THE MAIDSTONE
Photography by Hotels.com
207 Main St, East Hampton, NY 11937
At more than 150 years old, The Maidstone began service as a full time inn in the mid 1920’s. The building’s architectural influences are reminiscent of the well-known Americana and Hamptons aesthetics. The exterior is filled with lush gardens and even a pond.
My favorite things:
The pink sunroom
Onsite accommodations
The unique wallpapers and designs in the guest rooms that make for beautiful backdrops for those getting ready photos
CALISSA
Photography by Calissa
1020 Montauk Hwy, Water Mill, NY 11976
Calissa is inspired by the spirit of Mykonos and is a greek paradise in the middle of the Hamptons with six distinct event locations this venue is truly a hidden gem.
My favorite things:
The Garden is a clear-tented outdoor space with lush landscaping and stunning sunset views
The outdoor Terrace features a stage with concert level lighting capabilities and sound
Do you want more guidance and support behind planning your Hamptons wedding?
I would love to help! I offer support ranging from a consultation call to full service planning, as a Hamptons wedding planner I have you covered. You can learn more about my services here.
